Gay Hotline - Real Heteroflexible & Gay Men - Call Interactive Male Now - Sending & Receiving Messages

Once you have dialed into the system, our prompts will guide you through the simple process of setting up your voice personals mailbox and recording your ad. Remember to speak clearly and directly into the phone.

Although each is intended to help you connect with gay, bisexual, heteroflexible and bi-curious men, greetings on the Live Connector and your Voice Personals Mailbox are used in different ways.

Your Voice Personals Mailbox greeting is your identity on Interactive Male, and is available to gay hotline callers to hear 24 hours a day.

Your greeting in the Live Connector is heard only by other gay callers who are on the line. Make it short, punchy and ”in-the-moment.” Let the real you come through to talk to someone right then and there who shares your spirit of adventure. When you’re finished, your Live Connector greeting is erased, but your Voice Personals Mailbox greeting remains until you change or delete it.

This is your introduction to everyone online, so don’t be shy! Relax and take your time. The most intriguing greetings attract the most men!

  • Before you record your greeting, write out what you want to say about yourself, and about the type of guy you're looking for.
  • Be specific, and sell yourself!
  • Practice reading your greeting aloud a few times. Do you sound con?dent, approachable, friendly, sexy and open to new ideas with gay men?
  • Avoid dead air, saying “Uh” too many times, and using music.

If you hear from a man who just isn’t your type, simply delete the message and move on. He may send you another message, but that's all he can do. There is no way for him to get in touch with you outside of Interactive Male as all of your personal information is kept confidential.

If you get an unwelcome message while you’re in the Live Connector you can block the caller from sending you messages by pressing 7, when the system prompts you.

Send them a message back! You can do this back-and-forth as many times as you like until you decide you are ready to take it further, whether by arranging a meeting or by giving out your name or phone number. Interactive Male's best feature is that you decide when you're ready to proceed. We keep your personal information private at all times.

We want everyone to have an enjoyable, satisfying experience using our system. We will not tolerate:

  • any discrimination based on age, gender or race
  • any references to illegal substances

Messages are exchanged between callers using the voice personals mailbox system, and between callers on the live Connector. They can be used for introductions or to get to know someone else better. You can exchange messages many times. You can also leave them for callers on the Connector or in callers' voice personals mailbox. A connection request is a special type of message inviting a caller to join you in a private live conversation on the Connector.

There are all kinds of men including gay, str8, heteroflexible and bisexual men looking for a safe place to live out their erotic fantasies. While some are looking for a relationship, most are looking for a more casual, spontaneous and adventurous experience, and they are willing to try something different in order to meet new gay men.

Voice Personals Mailboxes is your most powerful tool for connecting with like-minded gay guys. The greeting you record for your Voice Personals Mailbox is your 24-hour a day presence on the Interactive Male gay hotline. Placing your greeting in a category guarantees that the right guys looking for the same kind of experience as you are will hear your greeting. Your Voice Personals Mailbox is how interested guys will get back to you. If you do not wish to run a greeting, you can designate your box as being "For Responses Only". This way, when you reply to an ad you like, that person will have a place to send you a message